Showing posts with label Dream journal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dream journal. Show all posts

Thursday, February 21, 2013

How Do You Remember Your Dreams?

65 - Perfect Recall
65 - Perfect Recall (Photo credit: tourist_on_earth)
         Many readers of A Faraway View have said that they don't dream.   Most research would counter this claim and say that we all dream, but we often do not remember our dreams.  Not remembering dreams is probably a more common situation than having good recall.   What makes us remember certain dreams, but have little or no memory of most other dreams?   Why are the dreams we do remember forgotten so easily and quickly?

        A recent study at the University of Notre Dame suggests that walking through doorways can cause you forget.   The researchers came up with the premise that moving from one environment to another can create enough mental distraction to cause a thought change when one enters into the new place.  Perhaps this is similar to what happens when we awaken from a dream.

        During a dream our mental faculties are focused on an often abstract thinking environment that often makes little sense.   Upon awakening we enter into a mind shift that consists of the logical world that is tangible and easier to comprehend.  Our attention is now focused on our senses and our surroundings.  Like passing though a doorway into another room, we leave behind the old thinking of the dream which is typically forgotten as we now respond to stimuli in the waking life.

         When we manage to carry the dream thoughts into the waking life and continue to dwell on them, those thoughts become clearer, more real, and remembered if we tuck them into memory.  The more we think about the dreams and tap into the dream memories, the more we solidify that dream memory in our mind.  It takes a conscious effort to isolate those memories and retain them for the long term.

        Writing the dream account can cinch the memory for us, but usually the timing is prohibitive for engaging in such a practice.  We usually are getting ready for the day, eating breakfast, or attending to family members.  There is often little or no time for dwelling on dreams.

         Sometimes prompting from others can help tremendously.  In a recent example I encountered, as I was going to bed one night, my wife, who had already been sleeping for some time, began sobbing in her sleep.  When I asked her if she was okay, I woke her up from a dream.   She told me the dream and why it had made her cry.  The next morning I asked her if she remembered crying in her sleep. She remembered and recalled the dream in detail.   Later that same day, after she came home from work, I asked again and she still remembered the details of the dream.

       For most of us, a dream awoken from in the middle of the night is forgotten the next morning.   However, if we were to get up from that dream and write it down, the memory would be more clear.  Likewise this would be true in the morning if we wake while dreaming.  If we have a dream journal or a note pad beside the bed or nearby, even if we write down a brief description and some key words, we are very apt to remember the dream, especially if we thoughtfully contemplate the dream for a time.

          Remembering a dream might be compared to memorizing a poem.  The first read through is the experience.  Most of us will forget the poem if we read it only once.  But as we study the poem, pick out key words that strike us, and continue to review the poem, we begin to commit it to memory.

           Such is dream memory.  To make the memory last after the initial experience, we must rehearse the dream in our mind and recite it until that dream is seared upon our memory.  Dreams are fleeting.  Work is required to hang on to them.

            Have you ever tried writing down dreams or keeping a dream journal?   Have you ever remembered a dream due to telling someone about it immediately upon awakening?    How good is your dream memory?



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Thursday, December 15, 2011

To Remember or Not To Remember?

Art by Ada Zdanowicz
        How many times have you heard someone say or you yourself say:  "I don't dream." or "I can never remember my dreams."?

         Though it is not uncommon to not remember dreams, studies show that everyone dreams during sleep and dreams frequently throughout the sleep cycles.  Sleep research studies have indicated that sleep deprivation can lead to serious physical and mental consequences including confusion and hallucinations.  In essence, if we are not permitted to dream during sleep our minds will begin to "dream" in wakefulness through what is termed lucid dreaming.

          Some of us prefer not to remember our dreams and possibly create a subconscious mental block that makes us believe we have not dreamed.  Yet research indicates that even those who consider themselves to be non-dreamers will show changes in brain activity during certain sleep cycles that suggest dream activity is occurring.

           Remembering dreams can be achieved through self-training which requires time in the morning that most of us are not willing to set aside.   We are too busy trying to get ready for the day ahead, eat breakfast, or whatever it is we do in the morning.  However, if dreams are not remembered immediately they will typically be forgotten very quickly.

           Keeping a pen and notebook close at hand can help dream memory training.  One should write down their morning thoughts that may be related to something they were dreaming.  If there are any dream memories write those down as well.  Focusing on these memories for a few minutes might begin to evoke the memories of what had been dreamed prior to awakening

        These actions may allow one to begin to develop a greater consciousness about what they might have dreamed.   However we typically don't have the patience or put aside the time to develop dream memory.  A drive to develop dream memory must be present.  It is a discipline that must be practiced on an ongoing basis in order for remembering ones dreams to become easier.

          You do dream whether you remember or not.  People who don't remember dreams may have had a traumatic childhood memory that has created a fear of remembering dreams; may be trying to repress troubling thoughts that recur in their dreams; may have merely conditioned their minds not to remember; or any number of other reasons.

          If you want to remember your dreams but can't, it might require extensive self-examination or even analysis by a professional such as one trained in psychology or sleep study.  Remembering your dreams is not crucial to getting by in life, but it can be enlightening to study them to try to understand what they are telling you.   If you are not experiencing dream recall, you might be missing some important messages that your mind or body are trying to tell you.

         Have you ever kept or do you now keep a dream journal?   If you are one who believes you don't dream, can you recall a time when you did or do you remember a traumatic dream event that frightened you a great deal?   Have you ever experienced hallucinations due to sleep deprivation?





       
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